Yes I knew that, but the new layout is completely different so I had tried both ways just in case they'd changed it. However, I've solved it! I disabled all lamp diagnostics out of desperation and the problem went away, seperately added all the other light warnings back one at a time, until I got to TAIL LIGHTS at which point it came back on again. Disabled TAIL LIGHTS and it went away again. Then added back all the others apart from those two and everything was fine.
On a THQ video, Andy does mention that fitting 6.1 tail lights (which I have) can cause problems, but only to the H7 diagnostics and that coding that out solves the problem.
So anyone who has the same combination (THQ V3 Ltd black at the front with THQ H1 and H7 LEDs fitted and T6.1 tailgate rears) and gets the lamp out warning, the answer is to code out diagnostics for HIGH BEAM and TAIL LIGHTS