After spending 5 hours cleaning the van yesterday and then going out and applying Rain-X tonight, my wife said I am sad and that I spend more time and pay more attention to the van than her. We've had a massive row and she said I have to choose between her and the van. So unfortunately she has to go and i'm offering first refusal to forum members. She is 44 years old, a good mum, brilliant at ironing and cooks a mean roast dinner! No reasonable offer refused!