My thoughts about the stop-start are that I'm not that keen. However I have noticed that after a spell of motorway driving, or driving where the turbo has been working more, it does seem to disable the stop-start, so it. ust know when the turbo needs cooling.
As for ACC, yes I agree its a bit clunky, but it obviously can only react to things, it can't anticipate as we can. However I've never found it unreliable with regard to braking, even up to a complete stop. My gripe is that, once it fully stops (eg at traffic light queue) it wont set off as the vehicle in front does. Even though my 2015 Golf did so the technology has been around long enough.