Good old feminist double standards in full effect !!!.
Please gentlemen, do jot use typical misogynistic gender labels when making reference to these divorce soliciters as it could be seen that you are attempting to subjugate them and diminish their role in an equall society.
These people may, indeed, not suscribe to societies binary labels of either male or female and may choose be gender neutral, and thus referring to them as women may cause deep offence to them and even, ( if its the, ' victims ', subjective opinion ), be deemed as hate speech which is now a criminal offence in the UK.
Happy Christmas sexist pigs !!!.
( for the sake of confusion, I'm joking ).